Saturday, 2 January 2010

Friendship, Love, etc.

The Wikipedia meaning of the word friendship is a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, affection, and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis .The word friendship has a very different meaning these days. Everybody makes friends easily. Everybody is friends with everybody. People go around telling everybody that they are friends with everybody even though they have just barely met. People invite everybody whom they have barely met or know to parties and embrace them with gifts and hugs. Everybody loves everybody. With the introduction of social interaction websites, making a friend has become very easy. People start adding people as friends whom they hardly know, and everybody wants to make friends with everybody as they feel having a lot of friends is great. The more friends, the better. Making a friend is just a click away. You then get to rate and rank them. You can also make friends with random people by just sitting in your room. You don’t need to meet each other to know each other you can do it by reading each other’s profile online, who knows if what’s written in there is true. Friends tell each other how much they love each other even though they do not know each other well enough or because they don’t know the meaning of the word. They make a lot of promises which they don’t keep. They make promises to you, they tell you that they will always be there for you, but disappear when you need them the most, but they always appear when they need you. This is the reason why when you tell somebody that you love them it doesn’t mean much. It’s so hard to find someone who loves you and really means it. There are so many people out there who just blurt out the word to you and it doesn’t mean much when they say it. Even when you tell someone that you love them you don’t mean it and therefore when someone tells you that they love you it doesn’t mean much to you. The word has completely lost its meaning. It is really hard to find someone who really loves you and will always be with you, no matter what. When was the last time you said the words to somebody and really meant it?

What do you think and feel about this?

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